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Sometimes, my heart hurts.

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I am missing Rocket a lot lately. I might seem like a horrible, insensitive horse owner/person, but I ignored my responsibility of picking up his ashes. I have always been freaked out by death and everything related to it, even when it involves a loved one. I asked my mom to handle it a couple months after his death and to ask them if they could mail them. The thought of driving to Tufts, picking them up alone, and having his ashes in my car honestly scared me. Recently, Tufts contacted me. I had thought my mom had done it, she had thought I had done it, when in reality neither of us had.  I felt really shitty. Anyone who knows me must know how much this horse meant and still means to me. We made arrangements for his ashes to be sent to my parents' house, where they will keep them safe until I decide what exactly to do with them. I have never understood the fact that people are comforted by ashes so I didn't really want them in an urn, and I already have his mane and tail for

A long-ass post with everything, including some positive changes, a legitimate goal and deadline.

SUNDAY I chose a salad today. It doesn’t sound like much, but I really wanted something sugary and/or full of carbs, but I didn’t do it. To satisfy my sweet tooth, I ended up getting apple slices and that definitely helped. I don’t know if I mentioned this in my previous post, but I am hoping to make it to the 100s by March 18. My family is going on a cruise and every time I have a vacation, I always say to myself beforehand that I will take that opportunity to use it as motivation. It has never worked in the past and the last time I went on vacation, I was 242 pounds. I didn’t like being in photos because, truth be told, I was (and still am to an extent) afraid to see just how big I was. Shorts didn’t really fit me unless I wanted to bump up even another size. That would put me at a size 20 and felt like losing to me. It was like a whole other level of shame. I was in denial. So mostly, I wore leggings or yoga pants. I hated taking my outer clothes off to go swimming because my

An update, some struggles, and tangible progress.

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Casually forgetting to write in here for over a month. So much has happened, yet I feel like I am still at a standstill in terms of my diet journey. If anything, habits have gone even more downhill. I don't want to dwell too much on what has already happened, so here's a quick summary: I've been staying pretty consistent at 217. Eating habits are fluctuating and I need to ground myself again and find that motivation/determination that I had when I started those months back. Recently, I discovered this Carb Count Breyer's ice cream. It's dangerous territory. Chocolate ice cream. 9 carbs per 1/2 cup. I've been having a freaking ice cream party every night, with sprinkles and whipped cream. Except then it turned into getting regular ice cream. I just ate like half a cup out of the tub before I threw it out because I knew it was a bad decision. Good news: I will never make that mistake again. Bad news: so much ice cream. I can't seem to get my mojo back. C

'tis the season for health anxiety and good revelations. (And a weight update)

Well, friends, it's been a tough month. Riddled with anxiety/stress. I have to move homes again, but the last place fell through and I already told my landlord I was moving, so I am under pressure to find a place fast. I have school, which I am letting slip. I can feel it, but I do nothing about it. This semester is SO close to being over. I just need to get past this. Then I continued to lose weight without trying and I got scared. Hypochondria took hold deep within my gut, and I convinced myself something fatal was wrong with me. I was eating donut holes and pizza and still losing weight. I made a doctor's appointment but it was 5 days away. I sat in a depressive slide where I let my chores and even hygiene (hair washing, nothing gross) go longer than I should. I got an extension for math and still did nothing about it. I have a retake for a Chemistry test, and I watched Netflix. It's like my ambition shut down. Everything shut down except that clench in my chest and hype

Exhaustion. But hey, another weigh in.

Life has been crazy. Since starting my new med of Metformin, I have noticed some extra symptoms of anxiety. Heart palpitations, paranoia, etc. But it doesn't help that my schedule is super full right now and it simply doesn't leave a ton of time for just unwinding and, well, containing my anxiety. I have my second Chemistry exam in a week that I am sorely unprepared for, my lab practical 2 days after that, I had to cram an ungodly amount of Algebra homework last night, Equine Affaire/the breed demo, and riding Seamus daily. Oh, and moving. Even though it's just down a level, it's surprisingly difficult and all of my furniture is impossibly heavy. Then there's all of the repainting... A lot of my workload is elected. I don't have to move or participate in the Equine Affaire. Those are things I want to do, but with everything else on my plate, it's just added stressors. I had a full-on breakdown in one of the Shire stalls a few days ago because at first I

The life of a hypochondria on a diet.

Welcome to the world of living with anxiety and hypochondria.  I am losing weight, and not even trying hard. (I know, I suck.) I am not depriving myself at all. Mind you, I still am aware of carbs and try to have low carb options when I can. But I have a munchkin or 2 (or 5...) when I feel like it. I have my regular sugary coffee (although with 1 pump instead of the normal 3). I eat bread in a limited amount. I have some mac n cheese when I feel like it. I rarely settle for salads anymore because, well, I don't like them. For a month, I stayed the same. I am now losing weight more than I was when I was trying. And it must mean I have some sort of cancer or illness that I am unaware of because it cannot just be this simple. The only changes I can think of are cutting out the Atkins snacks, which are higher in carb than they advertise. I also am not consuming as much synthetic sweetener. Instead of having Sweet N' Low in my coffee, I have a single pump of the real stuff. I

Animals, weight update, and rain. Lots of rain.

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I have no excuse for not writing regularly. It seems like I’m either not busy enough and don’t have anything to say or I have so much going on that it gets overwhelming and I have no time to write.  I guess I’ll start with my current schedule. I am now working one of the Shires at the draft barn along with a friend of mine, and we are going to be riding in the Equine Affaire! For those of you who don’t know what that is, it’s a horse festival located in West Springfield, MA. Pretty much every horse person I know goes there. I am riding in the Shire breed demo. We just found out last week and poor Quinn is so not in shape. He has such a long mane that we finally untangled and now he looks like Fabio. I, however, call him Fattio. He’s a good boy. So different than Seamus, where he’d rather stand there and not move. He hasn't been in full work for a while and first time sitting on him, we had no fireworks. So we have about 3 weeks to get them in shape for New England to see. We won&#